Anonymous:
Thank you, you're so right I guess I never thought about it that way. Its not easy making friends, I feel like I have no one now except my family. Thank you for taking to time to answer that I appreciate it big time!:)

You’re very welcome! You’re right, it’s definitely not easy making friends. But you can’t really force that kind of thing either, so just be patient and the friends will come :) On average young people change friend groups every five years anyway, so don’t sweat it.

Anonymous:
So I have a question about what I should do about the situation Im in with my best friend right now. Okay so I have this group of three friends, which I lost. I lost them because I told my friends that my best friend wasn't a very good friend. I just felt like she didn't care about me and it angered me. Its been a year now and I haven't talked to her, I can handle losing the others but I need my best friend. I don't know what to do anymore please help:(

If she’s not a good friend, then why do you need her? Look at what happened. You talked to her about how you felt, explained that you felt she wasn’t being a good friend, and then she just dumped you like it was nothing. She didn’t even once think that maybe she wasn’t being the best friend to you. A good friend would have tried to make things better and would have done everything to keep you around. She didn’t do that. She hasn’t talked to you in a year either, it goes both ways. You were right, she doesn’t care about you. You don’t need someone in your life that’s just going to treat you like crap. I’ve been in your position, and I was much happier when I found new friends. It’s hard, but you’ll be better off. Trust me. 

Anonymous:
I have a crush that doesn't know I exist. I have this feeling about him and I just want to know him but I don't know how. I see him at school and I smile at him and sometimes I say Hi but thats it.

Be bold. If he doesn’t know you exist, make him know. Carry yourself with confidence and a little attitude when you’re around him. Don’t just cutely smile at him, smile at him with some sass. Don’t just say hi, say “hey, lookin good today ;)” or something haha. You’re in charge here, don’t be afraid to get outside your comfort zone a little. Guys like that.

-Laura

Anonymous:
Okay I'm the same anon from before. And I don't think he likes me honestly it may have just been those accidental looks or something. I'm just over reacting :/

Girrrrrl don’t sell yourself short. If you aren’t sure, initiate some stuff yourself and see how he reacts. Don’t give up before you even know if he likes you.

Anonymous:
Okay but I am not great at talking either. And I always have a cycle with boys and I feel like he only has a mini crush on me where he will drop me just like that. Like its a crush where you don't know the person and you don't really like there appearance but its just frustrating me. Because I hardly know him and I don't think it's even a real crush. Can you tell?

I always say trust your gut instincts. If you don’t think it’s the real thing and you’re not even attracted to him, what’s the point, you know? I mean you can still get to know him and just keep him as a friend if you want to do that but at the same time you shouldn’t sabotage yourself from something that could be real just because you’re unsure. Even if you’re not wonderful at talking, get your friend to start the conversations but make sure you talk. If you want him to get to know you one way or another and you want to get to know him, you have to talk and that’s the only way it will work. I would just talk and get to know him as a friend first and then if you want it to go from there, let it be! 

-Emerald 

Anonymous:
Good with talking to girls like he has a girl he liked earlier in the year and he couldn't even talk to her. The thing is this guy is really cute and I'm not even a little bit attractive and I'm younger and I'm not developed or experienced and I'm just like why? Because I'm not worth it at all. Help please :)

First thing, you shouldn’t put yourself down! You are worth it and he sees that you in. Just be proactive in talking to him and get to know him! Be casual about it so it’s not like you’re trying too hard. Ask him questions like “how was your weekend?” and you can even do a little flirting and joking around while he answers your questions. Just be opened and welcoming while talking to him and be casual too. Also just because you’re not experienced and developed doesn’t mean anything. A two year age difference really isn’t that different because you’re still in the same age gap to experience similar things. Don’t worry about what you haven’t done, that isn’t important. Focus on being friendly and getting to know the guy and I’m sure things will work out for you :)

-Emerald 

Anonymous:
When a guy doesn't deny that he likes you does that mean he does

It’s likely. He’s probably just too shy to flat out admit it.

Anonymous:
Last nite I got wasted at a party, and I got really sick. This guy I'd been talking to like held back my hair when I puked, took care of me, and even paid for my taxi home and made sure I was safe. I'm sure I probably made a bad impression, but I just think he was so sweet for doing that for me and I want to tell him thank you, but I don't have his number or even know if he goes to my school. What should I do?

Talk to the people who were at the party, see what they know about him, and see if you can get his number that way. You probably didn’t make a bad impression, trust me. This happens to everyone at least once lol. We’ve all been there. Don’t stress over it. Obviously if he went to such great lengths to make sure you were okay, he still thinks you’re pretty great. Sounds like a keeper! Good luck!

-Laura

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Anonymous:
I'm upset and this boy I really like stop talking to me when i ask him why he said he don't see us going anywhere so I didn't answer and he texted if I'm still their and I reply I don't have nothing to say to you. I regret it cause I really like this man even thou he's 3 year older than me. Every guy that are attracted to me just loose interest or I push them away. I hate myself so much . I can never do anything right . I'm miserable . I need helped

Please don’t hate yourself over this situation. I’ve been in your place so many times, where I have liked a guy, and things feel and sound great and the guy says he’s interested (or acts like it) but then all of a sudden they aren’t interested. That has absolutely nothing to do with you. I actually was in a situation like this recently and I was so hurt and upset with this guy. Eventually I got over it but it took me a while. Please don’t feel like these guys are worth you getting upset over. If they aren’t interested, than they aren’t. You can talk to them about it but most of the time, a guy will lose interest if you don’t sleep with him after a while. There are those guys who aren’t like that and they are wonderful but I feel like every girl runs into a guy who only wants sex and will stop talking with you if they don’t get sex. That is absolutely not your fault. What you should do is focus on yourself and what makes you happy so if you ever run into a guy like this again, you will think that “its his lost, not yours” and you can keep it moving. Also, know what you want so that if you do run into another guy like that, you don’t let them run in and out of your life. Don’t think your life is anything minimum over a guy. They will come and go but your time does not so be upset a little bit but don’t dwell on it. 

I hope this helps!

-Emerald

Anonymous:
this is going to sound weird because im in a situation similar to the other anon about texting a crush. me and my crush are older (we're in our 20s) so we're pretty busy most of the time. Unfortunately i have to initiate our conversations, but sometimes he'll call me or text too. I usually prefer my own space, but for some reason i'd like to talk to him daily. I know he likes me, but idk if he wants to to do that daily or not. He may feel the same as me or he may want space.

Most of the time guys don’t initiate conversation. So if you do it most of the time that’s normal. It sounds like everything is going well, so you could try talking to him daily and see how he reacts and go from there. If he wants space he’ll let you know either with not responding or responding with vague answers.

Anonymous:
I use a fine touch or whatever that as-seen-on-tv hair trimmer is called. It's not shaving its just trimming and I use it on my face all the time.
Anonymous:
I've dealt with excess facial hair for several years, and I shave it probably every other day. I just do it in the shower and it's no big deal. I always see people advising against women shaving their faces but I'm really glad I started because I'm a lot more comfortable with no excess hair on my face. I don't mind feeling "unfeminine" for a few seconds to be comfortable with people seeing my face without the worry that they're seeing the hair. I hope that helps!
Anonymous:
I have like alot of peach fuzz all over my face and I've seen videos of other girls on YouTube and they shave it off. They claim that it doesn't grow back thick. I was wondering what your opinion is on peach fuzz or facial hair on women and if any of your followers have tried shaving their face.

Do not shave it. It will grow back in dark and thick. Everyone has hair all over their body though, a little peach fuzz isn’t that big of a deal in my opinion. But if it makes you insecure, I have a friend who bleaches her upper lip, you could try that. Or makeup? I don’t really know much about this, I’m sorry :/ Followers can you help us out?

Anonymous:
I really like my best friend and he knows he shares the same feelings but hes talking to another girl.. He will always makes comments of how if it wasnt for her I'd be his or he sees me being with him as his wife.. It bothers me that he says these things but won't actually do anything about?

Yeah, that’s not fair to you. He’s giving you false hope. He needs to either quit talking to her or quit saying this stuff to you if he’s not going to do anything about his feelings for you. I think you need to have a talk with him. Putting up with him is taking a toll on you and you don’t need that.