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I’m used to it

The saddest thing you can hear someone say. (via suckingonlarry)
Anonymous:
so i have a wedding to go to in july and i'm a bridesmaid. my invitation to the wedding says i have a plus one. as of right now, i don't have anyone to take. i don't have a boyfriend, but i really like this guy. i don't know if we'd start dating in the time from now until then. but do you think i should mention something to him. like.. "oh i'm in a wedding in july and i need to bring a plus one but don't have anyone to bring?" ..type thing? or wait until it's closer to the wedding?

I think you’re right, you should wait. It might freak him out to ask so far in advance when you’re not dating officially. But, I would just check plus one anyway. When it gets closer to the wedding, if you’re dating him, ask him to come. If you’re not, I’m sure you could find someone to go. Even just a friend maybe.

-Laura

Anonymous:
but the most frustrating thing is that like, all signs point to him liking me! he does say all that stuff to me, but he treats me so differently than anyone else. he tells me so much. it's weird, but i feel like he's the type to talk a big game, but if he were in a relationship with someone he would be all about them. and he has talked about exes and girls he's been with. but i'm nothing like any of the girls he's been with. i don't want to sound weird but i feel like we'd be good for each other

Hm. It’s really hard to say. You really won’t know until you flat out ask him. Which is obviously really awkward to blurt out, so maybe just ask him to hang out or even ask him to go on one of his “break dates” and then take it from there. Get his number if you don’t have it and text. Keep yourself guarded though. Make him prove to you that he’s not a player and legitimately likes you.

thekatediary:

you should NEVER BE EMBARRASSED ABOUT YOUR LAUGH like of all the things that you should not be embarrassed about that is maybe the biggest. that is your happy making sound. i hope it sounds like a crazy donkey. you are beautiful. 

Anonymous:
(P1) I like this guy a lot. I've literally had a dream about him/with him in it for the past week straight. I just started working with him, and he flirts with me all the time. the other day he asked if i wanted to go on a "break date" and i was joking and i was like "do i have to?" and he was like wow fine and said he was gonna ask someone else. then yesterday i went in for my shift early. and he told me to stand with him when he got food and then we sat and he was like "break date time"

(P2) and then he was saying how he went on tinder, and he was talking to a girl i went to school with. and he just found out where i go and he was like “i knew you went there, and i was like oh i wonder if their friends haha, that’d be weird.” i was like “uhhhh okay.. good luck!” we have such good chemistry though. it’s weird because my friend even said that she can tell we have good chemistry together and thinks we would work. i honestly feel like he likes me but i don’t know how to tell.

Kiiiinda sounds like this guy’s a player honestly. He asked you on a date, then said he’d just ask someone else, AND talks to girls on tinder. It sounds like he just wants a girl (or multiple probably) regardless of who it is. I would stay away, you deserve better.

-Laura

Anonymous:
Howdy! I'm having a bit of a problem at the moment. I always use the excuse that I'm not really interested in a relationship, and while that's partially true, I'm starting to feel like something is wrong with me. I'm often romantically attracted to people but when the attraction is returned, I get extremely uncomfortable and start to put up the wall. I feel weird. Is this normal?

Nothing is wrong with you at all! Not everyone is going to sweep you off your feet. And just because you’re attracted to someone doesn’t mean they are right for you. It takes a special person to make you feel like you want to date them, not just any random person. Just start being a little pickier and maybe that will help.

-Laura

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A woman is only vulnerable when her nail polish is drying, and even then she can still pull a trigger.

some great quote I heard somewhere once upon a time and that is very, very true (via traffic-jam-session)