I think you’re right, you should wait. It might freak him out to ask so far in advance when you’re not dating officially. But, I would just check plus one anyway. When it gets closer to the wedding, if you’re dating him, ask him to come. If you’re not, I’m sure you could find someone to go. Even just a friend maybe.
Hm. It’s really hard to say. You really won’t know until you flat out ask him. Which is obviously really awkward to blurt out, so maybe just ask him to hang out or even ask him to go on one of his “break dates” and then take it from there. Get his number if you don’t have it and text. Keep yourself guarded though. Make him prove to you that he’s not a player and legitimately likes you.
you should NEVER BE EMBARRASSED ABOUT YOUR LAUGH like of all the things that you should not be embarrassed about that is maybe the biggest. that is your happy making sound. i hope it sounds like a crazy donkey. you are beautiful.
(P2) and then he was saying how he went on tinder, and he was talking to a girl i went to school with. and he just found out where i go and he was like “i knew you went there, and i was like oh i wonder if their friends haha, that’d be weird.” i was like “uhhhh okay.. good luck!” we have such good chemistry though. it’s weird because my friend even said that she can tell we have good chemistry together and thinks we would work. i honestly feel like he likes me but i don’t know how to tell.
Kiiiinda sounds like this guy’s a player honestly. He asked you on a date, then said he’d just ask someone else, AND talks to girls on tinder. It sounds like he just wants a girl (or multiple probably) regardless of who it is. I would stay away, you deserve better.
Nothing is wrong with you at all! Not everyone is going to sweep you off your feet. And just because you’re attracted to someone doesn’t mean they are right for you. It takes a special person to make you feel like you want to date them, not just any random person. Just start being a little pickier and maybe that will help.